In teaching, we have what we call, Teachable Moments. But for my case, i have my own predictable moments...
When will i not talk...
When i'm tired
When i'm concentrating on completing certain tasks
When i have something stuck in my teeth and i'm trying to get out using my tongue
When will i not talk...
When i'm tired
When i'm concentrating on completing certain tasks
When i have something stuck in my teeth and i'm trying to get out using my tongue
When i'm reflecting
When you have already piss me off and i dun feel like explaining myself as to why i got angry
When you have already piss me off and i dun feel like explaining myself as to why i got angry
Sometimeswhen you try to explain yourself further, you might end up getting reprimanded more compared to just shutting up.
Just like we need to cater to different students of different needs and learning styles, why not adults when it comes to relating and communicating with each other?
Different people react and behaves differently to the same situation.
Not everyone can accomodate everyone elses working style and attitudes
When one doesn't acknowledge your ideas and behaviour, you cannot blame them for it
When one doesn't behave the way you want them to behave, then so be it
You can't change them
instead, you bypass their flaws and embrace them
When they feel your love and sincerity
You will see things changing and changing for the better
Is "sorry" a very difficult word to be said?
Must it always be the one that is in the wrong to apologise?
Would you say it out to make the situation better even if its not your fault?
Would you soften your heart upon hearing the word?
It is our mindset
Its pre-programmed in some of us that no, we will only say it unless we are in the wrong
It hurts to see someone being so strong headed
It hurts when you know that you're helpless about the situation
When it hurts, you tear
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silently...
Just feeling lost and down at this moment. i might even sound incoherent with regards to the things that i have just wrote down...oh well~i'm glad such feelings doesn't come often..
2 comments:
Don't worry too much. You are in a learning stage. You will obviously be confused and feeling frustrated.
You will learn. And then slowly, everything will fall in place, the way you wanted it to be.
Finally, you will master what people call, Expectation Management. ;)
hey babe! dont worry.. we all have our crummy moments.. all we have to do is to think of those happy thoughts!!
btw.. its time to change to the darkside.. blogspot is getting boring.. hehe.. come come! come join the crowd!
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